Keep Trying! Losing Weight is a Lifestyle Change

Mmmmmh! Imagine a situation where you no longer fit into your biggest size clothing. So earlier this year, I had my Annual medical checks, my cholesterol was high, Blood Pressure was a whopping range of 140/111!. My doctor flat out told me that if I didn’t get down to 75Kgs from 107kgs, I’d end up digging my own grave at an early age! These are the exact words Dr. Aluoch told me. Got so much respect and admiration for him! I vowed right there and then to clean up my lifestyle and eating habits. The reality that I weighed more than double my ideal weight was shocking! That's when I knew things had to change I read a story in Guidepost about a group of ladies who kept track of their calories and increased their activity levels. (Follow https://www.facebook.com/WeighSmartDietDivas) They saw good weight loss results. This was exactly what Calorie Count offered. I discovered Calorie Count a few days into my journey. I’ve also had people ask me what I am doing differently since compared to most people, I eat pretty healthy. It’s about portion control and not eating more than what my body needs. I have realized that am in control of my health – and my weight directly relate to the choices that I make. It's all simple math. If I make poor, destructive, unhealthy, choices – my body will reflect them. If I make wise, healthy, choices – my body will reflect them Maintenance is far more difficult than weight loss, I am sort of an expert in losing weight. I have an equal expertise in gaining it back! I worry endlessly about gaining weight back after working so hard to lose it. Truth be told, I still do. Health has been a process for me and it seems to be a never-ending journey. Going to the gym almost every day has made maintenance much, much easier. I notice that it makes the difference between gaining the weight back and maintaining it. For instance, if I am on vacation and away from the gym and make a few poor choices (Sweet wine anyone?) I will put on a few weight. I must admit...WINE is my weakness! I LOVE WINE! But, if I am at home and do a bit of celebrating but continue to exercise, I will just maintain my weight. Yeeey! I am embarrassed to say that there has definitely been times when I have thought, "I just want to sit around and eat all day." And honestly, I feel some freedom in that thought. Food is a comfort and I love to eat. So, I have had to really take a long, hard look at my behaviors and feelings when I want to renounce my healthy lifestyle. And every time it happens I have to choose a better, healthier choice. This can be very difficult. So far, so good! It's been about a year and a half of good choices. I do still log my food. And I log my weight. This may sound silly, but I stay motivated by buying really beautiful clothes and shoes that make me feel confident. Fashion really motivates me. Almost hitting my goal weight, excited to say my total cholesterol has gone down! And can’t wait to see Dr. Aluoch’s reaction in my next Annual medical check appointment early next year. . My BMI is down from 37 to 28. Almost getting there!!!!! During my last visit at the hospital a month ago, the doctor was so excited when he finally got to remove the word “obesity” from my chart! 15kgs lost so far!!!! What can I say??? Am so proud of myself!! Did I experience difficulty losing weight? The answer is YES! at times it definitely seems like a very slow process, but it’s worth it! I feel much better and more in control of my life My advice to the dieters, 1. Keep trying! You may have to try many times before this lifestyle change sticks. Remember, one day at a time. 2. Be accountable and be honest with yourself. You'll feel better if you are honest about a “bad” rather than hiding or giving up. Aim for progress, not perfection. We all love pie, cookies, cakes, etc. The bottom line is that we can still enjoy these things, just not all the time. Be willing to “break up” with certain foods that keep dragging you down the path of destruction. Just say no. Maturity is knowing that we can’t have everything we want when we want it 3. Support people going through this journey. Give them encouragement to keep going and I promise they will do the same for you! 4. Be willing to uncover and dig at the root causes of any unhealthy lifestyle behaviors. This may take professional therapy. But, you absolutely cannot battle a demon you cannot even see. Be willing to turn the light on first. No more numbing pain with food. No more eating to fill voids – for pleasure, for acceptance, or any other reason other than nutrition! Be willing to confront truth and pain 5. Fix your spiritual life. Connection to a higher power is crucial. You are not here by accident. We all have a Divine Purpose. Yes, all of us. You are not your past. You are not your mistakes, flaws, failures, etc. You are loved and must absorb this fact down to every last cell in your body. 6. Prepare yourself mentally, People will notice, so decide now how you will deal with the attention you get when you start seeing the results.